Saturday, January 31, 2009

Am I over protective?

.....Nicole is back to Shah Alam today....her flight at 12:30hrs by Airasia.... as usual, we kind of ...don't know what to say....I think our Horoscope got to do with it....She is Cancer and I am Capricorn...selalu mesti ada saja masalah hehehe... it's suppose to be a good words to say goodbye to each other but ...the fact is that, we just could not express it properly...instead we argued or say words that will hurt each other feelings.....

Well, ....I asked her who send her to airport. Was it her dad?...cos she did not ask me at all, which usually I am the one who will send her....she told me its her friend...who fetched her last time....well, I saw him in the car but not met him personally....hmmm a bf...then I hinted her that is why she don't bother to ask me anymore cos now she now have a bf....and don't even bother to introduce to me either....she answered me back ( oh we sms ah)....well, you can go and asked durang JK or MK...cos they met him already....punya la hot juga sia...why asked them?...why can't you just tell me what his name, from where, who his parents and what his work?...bla bla bla....la...and she did.... but at the same time...I started telling her this la...that la.... you know mother punya opinion.....and she sms me back...well, he is not like.....your bf yg you agung-agung kan?....punya la kan? Cis! she can answered me back like that.....

Am I too protective?....or what?...it's not that I don't want her to have a bf...cos she is still young and still studying....bf can always wait...I just don't want her to get hurt...and it will distract her from studying....susah bah kalau lovebirds semua ni....nanti pelajaran pun tergendala nanti....huh...as long she knows how to take care of herself......Apa Apa je la!

8 comments:

vsk said...

hehe.. i think its definitely the cancer and capricorn... karma not that good..

MK said...

auntie, msa kmi tnya pn dia jwb"ko tnya dia la'(bf dia)...i thnk dia x brapa comfortable kli mau kstau dri dia pnya feeling,he2..nti lama2 dia kstau jg tu...atau pun kali dia tkut kau x ksi approve..=b

Gemma Ann said...

Hi, I really like reading all the stuff you write on your blog. Ada yang sedih, funny and cerita dulu2. wow.. and I also like my name in your blog list. Classic ni...hehehehe. Keep it up cuz. And oh ya, about relationship with daughters, don't lah risau sangat. They'r still young, teenager macam tu la. Andang2 konon...it is that age. last time mungkin kita pun macam tu kali kan? But deep in our hearts, we do really love our mum...

Stoney Meenuk said...

Hi VSK, MK, KoLoLo (ya classic ni nama hehehe)...thanks for the comments..ya bah kan bikin meradang...bukan kita mau busy body but for her own safety, we should know who she's going out with kan...mana tau kalau ada apa2 masalah lain kali, senang kita cari that person....VSK, nicole told me its your friend kunun tu...what his name ah? Ezra? you know him?...MK ko la yang kena cari cerita dia ni...Cuz, when I was young about her age ( 21), sia belm ada bF, only when I was 23 ke baru sia ada...kalau mcm kawan2 kerja kami selalu jalan in group...itu pun mesti durang datang ke rumah dulu jumpa mama sia baru sia jalan. Sia takut kalau ada apa2 terjadi di jalanraya ke, kami hilang ke, at least my mum knows where I go....enda tau la, I don't like to tabuk2 tu...u know I am very open punya org..thats my style.

vsk said...

hehe.. yeah my time last time. all my friends.. girls and boys and mostly boys.. ALL come to the house and lepak.. so i won't have the problems w mom.. and surprisingly mom likes them & even made a party for them to come so that the house won't be so quiet.. she knows all just friends and not weird.. =D as for bf... sia kasi kenal cepat cepat so won't have probs too.. hehe.. thank God everything goes well..

Ezra? who ah? i dunno o.. see face maybe i know la.. or maybe they think they know me.. hehe... lol..

Stoney Meenuk said...

Actually better bah like that...jgn main tabuk2 tu...bukan kita pukul durang kan, but for some reason, we as parents have to know them bah...bah VSK, if you happen to see them di KL next time, you spy2 for me la ah...mana tau, itu boy pandai2 fly go there...itu la I don't want her to...cos nanti dia teringat dia saja and lupa pula belajar..Ish!!!

His full name is Ezra Graham Herbert, from KB, dulu kerja di Port Dickson...sino-kadus, 27 yrs old..

Recwel Members said...

kawan si Jae ba Vsk,..
auntie kau knal tu..

Tanya said...

byk si amau comment. tapi mls... but i hope both ur relationship will improve...

hugs aunty...