JEFF LEAVING ON A JETPLANE

Huhu at 1100hrs on 30/11/2011, sent Jeff to T2 airport. He is flying home today. Really make us sad. While driving to the airport, I just could not control my tears. They coming like the hard rain, cried cried and cried. Jeff keeps saying " don;t cry, I be back next year" and then you have to come with me together.

But it is just hard to stop the tears. I really feel so sad. I just don;t want to be parted anymore. We have waited so long to be together. After reaching T2, Jeff have to do his own self service check in. Later drop off luggage at the counter. Boarding only at 14:15hrs, so we went upstair to have our lunch at KFC. There, I can see Jeff face, he is feeling sad. After lunch, Jeff called his mum, to inform that he is coming home. While talking to his mum, Jeff cried. He told his mum he misses her so much, same with his mum.

Boarding time getting nearer. We stopped at one of the  shop selling chocolates and bought 2 boxes of chocolate for Jeff's mum.  Jeff says, " time for me to go but don;t say goodbye, I be back soon". We hugs and kisss. More hugs and Jeff cried. I know  how he feel cos I feel sad too.  But I could not cry, maybe becos I have cried earlier in the car. More hugs again. Until no sight of Jeff, I left the airport, went to get my car, and goodness me! I started crying. OMG! even when driving, I cried and cried until I stopped at Tg Aru town. Parked the car and just keep crying!.

I called my son Lucien ( luckily he is around, not gone to Sarawak yet), so we meet up and have soto. But soto don't taste good. So went home straight, reached home, falls asleep at the couch. Maybe too tired crying and heart feeling so sad and painful. Woke up at 5.30pm, still feeling pain at heart and empty, so on my laptop and start sending messages to Jeff to his email. I know he is still in KL airport ( flight only at 2300hrs), but just making myself feel good. I know he will get my messages once he reach home.

I love you so much Jeff, and see you next year, early April 2012!

The BENEFITS of SEX

Reading this is entertaining !!!
Be sure to read the final comment.


did you know that we can determine if a person is sexually active or not by looking at her skin ?

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests have shown that a woman who has sexual relations produces big amounts of estrogen which makes hair shiny and soft.

2. To make love in soft and relaxed way reduces the possibilities of suffering from dermatitis and acne. The sweat produced cleans pores and makes the skin shine.



3. To make love allows to burn all the calories accumulate is this romantic love scene.



4. Sex is one of the safest sports. It strengthens and tonifies all body muscles. It is more enjoyabel than doing 20 lapses in the pool. And you don't need special shoes !



5. Sex is an instantaneous cure against depression. It frees endorphines in the blood flow , creating a state of euphoria and leaves us with a feeling of well-being.


6. The more we make love , the more we have the capacity to do more. A body sexually active releases a higher amount of pheromone. This subtle aroma excites the opposite sex !



7. Sex is the safest tranquiliser in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFICIENT THAN VALIUM.



8. To kiss everyday allows to avoid the dentist. Kisses aid saliva in cleaning teeths and lower the quantity of acids causing enamel weakening.

9. Sex relieves headaches. Each time we make love , it releases the tension in brain veins.


10. To make love a lot can heal a nasal congestion. Sex is a natural antihistaminic. It helps fight asthma and spring allergies.

This message was sent to you so that you have good chances in sexual relations. It went around the world 9 times. It now arrived to you so that you can can in turn enjoy "Benefits from Sex".



She will visit you 4 days after you have received this message , but only if you circulate it. If you do not , then you will never have good sexual relations again for the rest of your life. You will be celibate and your genital organs will rotten and fall off.



He sends copies to whoever needs sex (who does not need any ?). Do not send money , since the destiny of his genital organs does not have a price.

Do not keep this message , it must disappear from you mailbox in 96 hours. Send 10 copies and see what happens in 4 days. This message must go around the world , so you must send it !!! This is the truth , even if you are not superstitious. Good sex , but remember : 10 copies of this message must be sent in 96 hours or never again in your life will you have good sexual relations !!!!

Looking for Love?

Looking for love? Australian study has some ideas
AP - Thursday, July 16

ADELAIDE, Australia - If you're looking for happily ever after, Australian researchers have a suggestion: Find a partner who shares your smoking habits.
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Researchers at Australian National University studied 2,482 married or cohabiting heterosexual couples over a seven-year period to pinpoint what the relationships that were still going strong had over ones that fizzled.

So what predicts romantic longevity? Age, for one.

Couples in which the man was one year younger or up to three years older than the woman had less than half the separation risk of couples where the man was nine or more years older. Couples in which the man was two or more years younger than his partner also showed a higher risk of splitting up.

The study released this week _ called "What's Love Got to Do With It?" _ also found that relationships in which the man was at least 25 at the time the couple got together were more likely to last. So were ones where both partners shared a desire to have children _ or shared a desire not to.

Money, too, plays a role: Couples with low household incomes were more likely to split than those with moderate or high incomes. Men who were unemployed had less stable relationships, as did men whose parents had separated.

A nicotine habit can have a profound impact. Relationships in which one partner smoked and the other didn't saw their risk of separation shoot to more than 75 percent of those in which neither partner smoked.

The study found, however, that religion, education levels and alcohol consumption had no effect on marital stability.

The researchers used data from the "Household, Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia Survey," conducted by the government from 2001 to 2007.

Just for Thought

What a kiss means...

Kiss on the stomach = Im ready"
Kiss on the Forehead ="i hope we're together forever"
Kiss on the Ear = Your my everything"
Kiss on the Cheek = "We're friends"
Kiss on the Hand = "I adore you"
Kiss on the Neck = "we belong together"
Kiss on the Shoulder = "I want you"
Kiss on the Lips = I love you"

What the gesture means...

Holding Hands = "we definitely love each other"
Slap on the Butt = "That's mine"
Holding on tight = "I don't want to let go"
Looking into each other's Eyes = "I just plain love you"
Playing with Hair = "Tell me you love me"
Arms around the Waist = "I love you too much to let go"
Laughing while Kissing = "I am completely comfortable with you"

--Advice--
Dont ask for a kiss, take one.
If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

CAN I INVITE YOU OVER.....

Can I invite you over to my house....sit you down on my couch....Have a little convo....Pour some of what ever you want to drink....And take you to my bedroom...Lay you down on my bed....And turn the lights off....Light a few candles...Take of my clothes...Walk to the dresser and turn on some music.....Then walk slowly back over to the bed....Get under the cover....And ask you to do what you need to do to get comfortable....I slowly climb on top of you and begin to kiss your stomach.....And work my way down.....And Finally I get on my knees and start.....
Praying that you will be blessed everyday!....Gotcha!!!
I wonder what you were thinking about when you were reading this hehehehe..... Otak kuning!

Tribute to All Mums

I got this from a friend, and I thought I share this with you......

MOTHER
This is a truly BEAUTIFUL piece. Please read this at a slow pace, digesting every word and in leisure ... do not hurry ....this is a treasure..
For those lucky to still be blessed with your Mom, this is beautiful. For those of us who aren't, this is even more beautiful. For those who are moms, you'll love this.

The young mother set her foot on the path of life. 'Is this the long way?' she asked. And the guide said: 'Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it.. But the end will be better than the beginning.'

But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years.
So she played with her children, and gathered flowers for them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and the sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried,
'Nothing will ever be lovelier than this.'

Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was
dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said, 'Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come.'

And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and
the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children,' A little patience and we are there.'
So the children climbed, and when they reached the top
they said, 'Mother, we would not have done it without you.'

And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up at the stars and said, 'This is a better day than the last, for my
children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday I gave them courage.
Today, I've given them strength.'

And the next day came strange clouds which darkened the earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped and stumbled, and the mother said: 'Look up. Lift your eyes to the light.
' And the children looked and saw above the clouds an everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the darkness. And that night the Mother said, 'This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.'

And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent.
But her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage. And when the way was rough, they lifted her, for she was as light as a feather; and at last they came to a hill, and beyond they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide. And mother said, 'I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my children can
walk alone, and their children after them.'

And the children said, 'You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.' And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said: 'We cannot see her but she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence......'

Your Mother is always with you.... She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street; she's the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks; she's the cool hand on your brow when you're not well. Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop. She's the place you came from, your first home; and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love and your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can separate you.
Not time, not space... not even death!

MAY WE NEVER TAKE OUR MOTHERS FOR GRANTED...

The Best Relationship Advice I Ever Got

Dating 101: The Best Relationship Advice I Ever Got

Nine women spill the secret words of wisdom that keep their relationship blissful.
By Sara Anderson for Redbook Updated: Apr 3, 2009

No doubt, there are days when you feel as though you deserve the "Best Partner in the World" award: You make sure dates with your mate stay fun, you settle arguments with amazing grace and you don't always go into whining mode when you find his dirty socks next to, rather than in, the hamper. How did you get so smart? You were given some stellar advice from friends and family. Here, the nuggets of relationship wisdom you've stayed faithful to over the years.

#1. Polite Fight
"On my wedding-invitation RSVP cards, I left space for guests to write their favorite wedding wisdom. The tidbit that rings truest after almost nine months of marriage is: 'Attack the issue, not each other.' How it works: If my husband and I disagree about something, we stay focused on the issue and skip the personal put-downs." -- Melissa Gitter Schilowitz, 31, Metuchen, NJ#2.

#2.Fit to a Tee
"My grandmother insisted that I learn how to play golf. 'If your husband loves to play, you can go along and spend hours together,' she said. So I took lessons, and now my husband and I hit the links once a month. We both love the game and are thrilled to share a hobby, even when we spend half an hour looking for my out-of-bounds balls!" -- Aimee Borders, 27, Houston, TX

#3. Tabletop Trick
"My aunt told me that if I'm running late when it's my turn to make dinner, just set the table. That way my husband thinks he'll be eating any minute, so he doesn't start complaining, which buys me some time. It's a silly trick that sounds straight out of the 1950s, but I have to admit that I've tried it a few times in the three years I've been married -- and it works!" -- Dawn Clayton, 34, Holdrege, NE

#4. Boob-Tube Brilliance
"Because my husband is such a remote-control freak, my mom suggested that we have 'my turn' TV nights. That means three nights a week I get to hold the remote and watch whatever I want, and on the other nights it's his turn to hold the remote and watch whatever he wants. Now when he starts flipping through the channels, it doesn't get on my nerves like it used to." -- Angela Clayton, 27, Odenton, MD

#5. Pop the Question
"My sister-in-law passed this helpful hint on to me, and it has served me well for our five years of wedded bliss: 'Marriage is not mind reading, so ask your spouse what he/she wants and believe what he/she says.'" -- Clare Graca, 27, Dallas

#6. Nix the Nit-Picking
"Before I said 'I do,' my mom (who's been married to my dad for 55 years) told me to take out a piece of paper and write down the top three things that bugged me about my husband-to-be. Then she told me to forget the things on that list and forgive him for not being flawless. Once you make a commitment this big, she explained, you can't let petty things get in the way. In our eight years of marriage, my husband and I have had two kids, tackled cross-country moves and started two businesses -- and so far, so great."-- Rebecca Hart Blaudow, 31, Jacksonville, FL

#7. Space Smarts
"Always have separate closets, my best friend told me. It may seem silly, but I listened to her and made sure to find a one-bedroom apartment with two closets (mine being the larger, of course). Now my husband and I each have our own private space, and we respect that: If he wants to keep his shoes in one huge heap or leave his dirty clothes in a pile on the floor, the mess doesn't bother me a bit!" -- Patricia Bontekoe, 26, Lake Hiawatha, NJ

#8. Agree to Disagree
"Before we got married, my minister told my husband and me, 'You are two imperfect people making an imperfect union, and that's wonderful.' This advice made me ditch my belief that in a happy marriage, the couple always agrees. My husband and I have learned to appreciate our differences (yes, even differences of opinion!); in fact, we encourage them because we realize now that those differences are what makes each of us unique and special." -- Beth Swanson, 28, Chicago

#9. Comic Relief
"Before I headed down the aisle, my stepfather told me to always laugh and never take myself too seriously. After four years of marriage, I know that this trick works. My husband and I often play practical jokes on each other and always try to crack each other up, even in the middle of an argument. Hey, if one person laughs, a fight tends to fizzle, doesn't it?" -- Lisa Giassa, 31, Bogota, NJ

Anti-Pop Advice From the Experts
You've probably heard a few of these pieces of marital pop wisdom before. If so, these marriage experts say to promptly forget 'em.

Love means never having to say you're sorry. "Oh, please! In marriage, love sometimes means having to say you're sorry even if you don't know what you did or you didn't mean to do it." -- Trisha Taylor, psychotherapist, Houston, TX

Always be totally honest. "What are you going to do, tell him that he's just too short and you can't stand his mother? Sometimes you need to temper the truth." -- Tara Fields, Ph.D., marriage, family and child therapist, Marin County, CA

Children come first. "This is bad advice if it means your husband always comes second. Of course you should love and care for your kids, but you should never lose sight of your couple-ness. The best thing a child can have is happy, fulfilled parents who are deeply in love." -- Mary Pender Greene, chief of social work services, Jewish Board of Family and Children's Services, New York

Always keep the peace. "No, no, no. If you don't face a hot issue head-on, you'll stockpile negative feelings. And before you know it, 20 years go by and you're still fighting over the same thing because you never resolved it in the first place." -- Rebecca S. Ward, M.S.W., psychotherapist, Little Rock, AR

Never go to bed angry. "Forget it. Often a couple needs time to calm down before they can rationally wrap up an argument. And that may take a few days, so in the meantime, get some sleep!" -- Gilda Carle, Ph.D., psychotherapist, New YorkReprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.

What is the Meaning of Love?

Meaning of Love

- Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way.

- When someone loves you, the way he says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in his mouth.

- Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other

-Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings.

- Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.

- Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.

- Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying No.

-Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.

-Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they've know each other so well.

-Love is - if you hold hands and sit beside each other in the cafeteria.

- Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.

- Love is when your partner smelly and sweaty and still says he is better and handsome then anyone else.

Love goes on even when you stop breathing and you pick up where you left off when you reach heaven.

If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself!

Have you found love?